Friday, March 20, 2009

April 14th

Is the day Beatrice has her surgery to have tubes put in her ears. I am not looking forward to it. I am very upset. We went to the doctor yesterday and he said, "There's really nothing more that I can do since you've already tried all these antibiotics. It's not like I have some kind of miracle medicine to make her ears better." Stupid me, I was totally thinking that he did! Later that night I tried telling my Mom and Dad about it on the phone, and I just broke down and started crying. I know, I know I'm over dramatic. And I know that if this is the worse thing that ever happens to her we're good. I am thankful for that. I just didn't realize what the whole tubes-in-the ears process was until I read up on it yesterday before going to the doctor and I just didn't like it. They have to put Bea under! That's the main part that got me. I just don't want to see her like that. And of course I can't help but wonder if she'll be a teeny bit different after the whole thing. My Mom suggested that I get a second opinion to make me feel a little better. I was thinking that that's a good idea... but then is it? She's had this since December and nothing has worked! Do I want to dick around any longer with other medicines that may or may not work? I guess I'll just call and see.

3 comments:

Lindsay said...

I know a few mommies who have kids with tubes in their ears and they said it was no biggie!! I'm thinking after a few months of antibiotics, what more is there? but second opinions are always good. just do it soon, so if the tubes are necessary you can keep the appt!!

Desi said...

I also know a couple of mom's that have little ones that had to have tubes in their ears. Both of them said they noticed a big difference for the better right away. I can only imagine that she will become even more of a social butterfly because she will be able to ear much more clearly.

Muse said...

Poor Bebe. That sucks that she has to go through a surgery to fix the problem. I'm sure she'll be fine, but I can see why that would be stressful for you. Have you decided on getting a second opinion?